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Okay, follow car-haters, lol, here I go with my rants and raves again...
This, once again, is a rant.
I know my community very well because I walk and bike alot, so I am aware of new businesses that have opened up in my neighborhood. I'm even aware of many homes that have been placed on the market. Because of seeing things on a human scale, I have an uncanny knowlegdge of distance between places and so on, but yesterday, I got so fed up with motorists stopping and asking me for directions that I actually told one driver that I didn't know even though I did.
Of course, I felt absolutely awful after I did that. I wish I could press a "rewind" button and do things differently, but just in the past week about eight motorists on separate occasions stopped and asked for directions. The motorist in question pulled over and rudely honked his horn to get my attention even though I didn't have my ipod on or wasn't on my phone. What was that about? Therefore, after he asked me for directions based on some address he had written down, I was so annoyed that I told him I did not know. I did know, however, and it was obvious to me that the reason he was getting lost over and over again was because he had the house numbers backward because based on how the houses are numbered in Suburban Miami, the combination he had written down couldn't have existed, but instead of going into all of that with him (I had groceries in my hand, and I just wanted to get home) and the fact that he rudely honked at me, I simply told him, "Sorry, I dont' know".
Obviously, I lied, and I truly feel guitly about doing that, but how would you guys have handled a similar situation? Geez, I seem to be seeking lots of advice on this tribe lately. : ) Sorry about that, guys.
This, once again, is a rant.
I know my community very well because I walk and bike alot, so I am aware of new businesses that have opened up in my neighborhood. I'm even aware of many homes that have been placed on the market. Because of seeing things on a human scale, I have an uncanny knowlegdge of distance between places and so on, but yesterday, I got so fed up with motorists stopping and asking me for directions that I actually told one driver that I didn't know even though I did.
Of course, I felt absolutely awful after I did that. I wish I could press a "rewind" button and do things differently, but just in the past week about eight motorists on separate occasions stopped and asked for directions. The motorist in question pulled over and rudely honked his horn to get my attention even though I didn't have my ipod on or wasn't on my phone. What was that about? Therefore, after he asked me for directions based on some address he had written down, I was so annoyed that I told him I did not know. I did know, however, and it was obvious to me that the reason he was getting lost over and over again was because he had the house numbers backward because based on how the houses are numbered in Suburban Miami, the combination he had written down couldn't have existed, but instead of going into all of that with him (I had groceries in my hand, and I just wanted to get home) and the fact that he rudely honked at me, I simply told him, "Sorry, I dont' know".
Obviously, I lied, and I truly feel guitly about doing that, but how would you guys have handled a similar situation? Geez, I seem to be seeking lots of advice on this tribe lately. : ) Sorry about that, guys.
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Re: Motorists Asking for Directions
Fri, January 2, 2009 - 7:21 PMWell, Roger, sounds like you were just fed up this time. No big deal.
I also get yelled at by motorists who need directions from me as I cross the intersection in front of them. I'm sorry, I can't give directions in the 4 seconds before the light changes...and I am not going to stand in the intersection with moving traffic. Let alone my risk in approaching a car full of strangers. I often ask them to pull over but sometimes they can't be bothered. -
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Re: Motorists Asking for Directions
Fri, January 2, 2009 - 10:05 PMAlex,
You are so right about that. The thing is why did he have to honk his horn? I absolutely hate THAT. I often witness young men honking horns after a young woman waiting on a bus, and then proceeding to stick their heads out to the window to solicit her attention. I hate that kind of behavior. Obviously, the driver's to blame, but the very nature of the personal automobile and its infrastructure, once again, fails to lend itself to appropriate social behavior.
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